You are a Sacred Ceremony Facilitator!
Leading Sacred Ceremony has been one of the most profound and healing thing I do. I’ve been in the Energy Healing World for over 20 years now and Ceremony is, hands down, the most effective and powerful ways I’ve found to move energy.
I’ve witnessed miracles, personally and with others, that are mind blowing. Healing old stories, past traumas, physical conditions, mental disorders, emotional inadequacies as well as help with career, relationships and finances.
I can get why people are hesitant to claim they are qualified enough to lead these ceremonies. Here’s a list of reasons I feel, almost every time, when I’m getting ready to guide a ceremony (and I’ve guided 100’s).
Imposter Syndrome: Feeling unqualified and like a total fraud.
Fear of Judgment: Worrying about others' opinions. “They’ll think I’m nutso!”
Lack of Confidence: Underestimating my gifts and abilities.
Perfectionism: Believing I need to be flawless.
Comparing to Others: Feeling inadequate next to other facilitators.
Doubt my Intuition: Struggling to trust my inner guidance.
Fear of Responsibility: Feeling overwhelmed by holding space.
Unresolved Wounds: Am I healed enough or will I tauma dump?
If you feel this way, know you’re not alone and I’m going debunk these right now.
Imposter Syndrome: You are the gift. Not your gifts, certifications, degrees or accolades. You showing up is where the magick is. All those other things are just icing on the cake! The world NEEDS you and your magick in the way that ONLY YOU can share it!
Fear of Judgment: Listen, this one is just straight up old tribal fear biting you in the ass. We used to need the acceptance of our tribes for survival. Now, we’re good babe, you’re good! The right people will come and those not meant for you can move along!
Lack of Confidence: Confidence is gained by doing the thing you think you can’t do! The only way through this is to do it! Practice makes progress (not perfect, see next item) so the more you show up in Ceremony the more you progress in your ability to Ceremony! There’s no other way around this one, you just gotta do it!
Perfectionism: This one just doesn’t exist. You are exactly where you need to be in this moment. You’ve been preparing your WHOLE LIFE for this. You’re the smartest, kindest, wisest you’ve ever been in this moment NOW! Whatever you do is good enough because YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH! Mistakes happen, people are understanding, so just be honest and you’ll find people will love you for your humanness!
Comparing to Others: This one is totally normal to do, but STOP IT! It doesn’t every do you any good. You’ll never be like other people. You’ll always be YOU so you might as well be the best damn you you can be! And guess what?!? You don’t even have to TRY…you just ARE! Remember, the world needs YOUR medicine YOUR way, not someone else’s way cause they’re already offering it. Do YOU boo!
Doubt in Intuition: This one is real and after 20 years in this industry I still sit with this one DAILY! I mean, am I crazy or is this real?!? When I lean into it and let go of the judgement I find my intuition is SPOT ON! Intuition is a muscle that needs flexing daily. The more you flex it, the stronger it gets. Ceremony superchargers your intuition.
Fear of Responsibility: Thinking you’re responsible for everyone’s experience is a Savior Complex. This is familiar to empaths and healers. We think we’re supposed to ‘fix’ or ‘heal’ others. The truth is, spirit does the ‘fixing’ and ‘healing’ and even that is base thinking because ceremony helps us remember to remember WHO WE ARE…a Divine Holy Human Being and we don’t NEED fixing or healing, we need only to remember our divinity and our humanity upgrades immediately to whole!
Unresolved Wounds: You’re human, you’re going to have trauma, it’s part of life. You’ll never be ‘perfect’ (see above) and that’s not what the world needs anyway. One of my mentors always said; “Your mess becomes your message.” So all that shit you’ve been through is actually why people want to come work with you…it’s relatable. You can share your personal journey and what you learned from it! That’s wisdom right there with a healthy does of compassion for others because, hey, you’ve been there! This is medicine!
Here’s the deal, it’s your time and you ARE ready now! Just ask yourself these questions honestly. If you answer ‘Yes’ to any one of them, you’re qualified to be a Sacred Ceremony Facilitator.
Do you…
Desire to Serve Deeply?
Love Ritual & Connection?
Feel Ready to Share Your Unique Wisdom?
Crave a Deeper Purpose?
Love to Empower Others?
Dream of Building a Conscious Community?
Search Out Personal Growth and Healing?
Chances are, you’re already holding Ceremony in many ways and you just don’t even know it yet. Whenever you’re aligned with your higher self, spirit, or source, YOU are in Sacred Ceremony. You don’t have to have an altar, stones, grids, or fancy music. You can be in ceremony at the grocery store, driving your car, working in the yard, helping kids with homework, or at your job.
Sacred Ceremony is a mindset, an intention, of being connected. Incense, candles and singing bowls are fun, but not required. All that’s required is YOU showing up for YOU and those around you.
Grab your FREE Sacred Ceremony Facilitator Cheat Sheet to explore an outline of hosting Ceremony.
If you’re ready to explore more on how to hold your own Sacred Ceremony, join me Friday April 25, 6-9 pm at My Mind & Body Collective for a training you’ll never forget!
You’ll walk away with the knowledge that you’ve got what it takes, the confidence to step into your gifts and the wisdom of ancient beings guiding you to birth new realities on earth with your insight! I can’t wait to see what magick you share as medicine for the world!
